It is easy, in a relationship, to let things slide because you’re so busy. However, that philosophy can lead to resentfulness. You’ll feel angry and hurt that they aren’t making changes when they may not know there is a problem. Marriage counsellors can be a huge help to those who want to fix their problems and work on them before it gets too late.
If you’re unsure of how to communicate your feelings or aren’t sure what your feelings are, they can help you. Similarly, they give you a safe place to talk about your needs openly without the fear of rejection or being un-validated. They are perfect for major life-changing events, such as getting pregnant, having a baby, losing or gaining a job and more.
The goal here is to find someone who teaches you about relationship skills while monitoring your progress. They give you the tools to do things yourself and then make sure you’ve got it by your actions. They can also be a mediator if you need them to be, as they are an impartial party involved. They will also work to give feedback that can help you and your partner grow. They should be honest and invoke honesty from you both.
At From 2 to 3, you get the qualifications of a professional who cares about you. Getting pregnant or becoming a new parent is a tough time. You have all these feelings and emotions, and so does your partner. Both of you may get into a routine that isn’t healthy and normal, so you may need help to work through these situations. Marriage counsellors can help you understand your feelings, as well as your partners, and work with both of you to become better spouses and parents.
